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How to change your password

If you don't remember your password, go here and enter in your email address. This will send you an email with a link to log into OkCupid. You'll want to be sure you're entering the ema...

How to delete or disable your account

You can disable or delete your account on the web from your settings page where it says “Need a Break?” on the bottom of the page. On the app, tap on your profile, then on Acc...

How to change your name

You can change your displayed name on the settings page. You can get to this page on the app by tapping on the pencil icon at the top of your profile, next to your currently displayed name. We ask ...

Non-Binary profile options

At OkCupid, we enthusiastically welcome people of all orientations and gender identities. We have 13 orientation options and 22 gender options available for our members to choose from. When OkCup...

How to change your profile location

On the web You can change your profile's listed location on the settings page. On the app Go to your profile, then tap the edit pen icon under your profile photo. From there, you can select y...

How to add pronouns

We believe that everyone deserves the right to love whomever they choose, and express themselves in the way they feel most comfortable, so we’re proud to be the first major dating app to create ...

How to link profiles with your partner

First set your relationship status to Seeing Someone or Married. On the app and desktop website, this will bring up the option to link your accounts with your partner. Tap that link and it will reveal...

Can I hide my Online Now status?

Nope! But it’s 2018, nobody’s ever really offline anyway. If you want to limit who can see you’re online, check out Incognito, which will hide your profile from anyone who you ha...

Why can’t I find my country?

Some commonly-selected countries are at the top of our country list, rather than in alphabetical order. If you’re not seeing your country in alphabetical order (Hi, Swedish friends!) please chec...