How to change your nameYou can change your displayed name on the settings page. You can get to this page on the app by tapping on the green pencil icon at the top of your profile, next to your currently displayed name.
We now ask that you use your first name instead of a username, but if you're not comfortable showing your first name, feel free to use initials or a nickname, as long as it's something you're comfortable having your date call you!
You cannot change your name on the mobile website. You'll have to switch to the full website or the app to do so.